I make dua for that one specific person to be my wife after every salah. Every time i asked allah to give her hedayat and i absolutely respect her. But also in the mean time i’m losing my patience as i’m not seeing any progressing about the dua. But i still try to convince that as ALLAH is the creator of everything he can also make my prayers and dua come true. Also i prayed tahajjud to make my dua happen and also in the meantime i seek forgiveness from my ALLAH. I hope may ALLAH make my dua comes true and i’ll be the happiest person ever.
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Can i make dua for a specific person to be my wife
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
Marriage is a sacred bond, ordained by the divine will of Allah. Seeking a spouse requires patience, introspection, and faith in Allah. It is through sincere prayer and supplication that we seek guidance and blessings in this important life decision. You must not stop asking Allah for a righteous spouse, but do not make particular dua about someone (i.e., “Ya Allah, give me her in marriage”). What if she is not good for you? What if your life will get destroyed if you marry her? I advise you to make dua for a righteous spouse and leave the rest to Allah. We do not know the future, so have tawakkul in Allah’s wisdom. Ultimately, the choice of a life partner rests in the hands of Allah, and we must trust in His wisdom.
May peace and blessings be upon those seeking a righteous and fulfilling marriage.
I’m in the same situation brother
Yes
Of course if you are interested in HELL then you can have a girlfriend
The best I can tell you is to Pray ‘Istikhara prayer’, as it is mentioned in ‘Sahih al-Bukhari 1166’.
By praying this prayer, Allah will guide you to what is best for you, So if you will pray it regularly, and if that is good for you Allah will make that easy to achieve and if that thing is not good for you then Allah will remove that from your heart automatically, So have trust in Allah.
Simply you have to make intention of praying Istikhara, and just as we pray Sunnah/Nafl prayer you have to pray 2 rakath and after Salam means after finishing prayer you have to recite ‘Istikhara Dua’ which The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم taught. You should check the hadith ‘Sahih al-Bukhari 1166’ the dua is mentioned there
Jazakallahu khayran Katheera