1. Having girlfriend is not allowed in Islam and it’s better not to touch women you’re not married to. If you have such girlfriend and love is real between you then why not marriage?

Yes u can!! Absolutely can..

If u nd ur grlfrnd wants to go hell,

So then u can ..

It is!

Relationship other than marriage is haram akhi.

First of all it’s haram. Whatever the whole society do this. Haram rlsn will give u so much joy (when it’s on the beginning)  but after somedays it’s will push u to the tension anxiety derepression.. Which means you are getting distance from Allah. Just don’t go to a haram rlsn.. Tell ur parents for ur nikkah(marriage) .  or sabr(patient)

Here you can see what Allah says in Quran, and if you are a believer, Indeed you would fear Him and obey to His command.

[al-Nisaa’ / 4:25]

فَانكِحُوهُنَّ بِإِذْنِ أهْلِهِنَّ وَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مُحْصَنَاتٍ غَيْرَ مُسَافِحَاتٍ وَلاَ مُتَّخِذَاتِ أَخْدَانٍ … (النساء: 25).

“… Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable; they should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…”

[al-Noor / 24:3]

الزَّانِي لاَ يَنكِحُ إلاَّ زَانِيَةً أَوْ مُشْرِكَةً وَالزَّانِيَةُ لاَ يَنكِحُهَا إِلاَّ زَانٍ أَوْ مُشْرِكٌ وَحُرِّمَ ذَلِكَ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ (النور: 3).

“Let no man guilty of fornication or adultery marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden.”

[Al-Isra / 7:32)

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ ۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَـٰحِشَةًۭ وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًۭا

“Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way.”

In the end, I would just say that whatever happened let it go and now, for the sake of Allah leave all the haram, repent to Allah and ask for forgiveness with true heart. As He says that –

[Al-Nisa / 4:106]

وَاسْتَغْفِرِ اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا

“And seek the Forgiveness of Allah certainly. Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving. Most Merciful.”y

[Al-Zumar / 39:53]

يَعِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَى أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ

“O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.”

Jazakallahu khayran Katheera.

So I am just 14 years old so if i explain something wrong please excuse me.

so what you should do if you really love her and she loves you is to be sure she is the right person. If she is then you should say “fi aminallah” that means I leave this relationship for the sake of allah. Once you done this the next step is to talk to her father. If y’all don’t have enough to have a house yet y’all should just do a nikkah. A nikkah is when you and her are engaged that when it’s halal. Then once you have enough to marry her y’all can get married. If her dad doesn’t accept you, you can try but if it doesn’t work then you just have to move on, it’s better to find someone else and make it halal than haram relationship. Every text y’all send each other is a sin. Everything you do in a haram relationship is a sin until nikkah.

It’s not bad to make a girlfriend but there are some rules. You cannot get physically attach with her . If u love her then tell her , pray for her therr are some rules bout this topic