Truth be told, all I know is that, it was said for Muslim women to marry a Muslim men. Being a Sunni or Shia doesn’t matter, afterall, Muslim is Muslim. HOWEVER, do keep in mind of the differences. It will and could affect your marriage life.

If your parent reject the idea, you CAN ask for a different wali.

Make a list of 7 to 8 things that you won’t tolerate and listen to his, then go from there. Make use of the Nikah and ask question that actually really matter. Like polygamy, live style, friend group, job, if you’ll stay with his family, if you guys will settle elsewhere, criminal history, family health, etc.

So long as you are satisfied with his piety and his character, that should fine. Being compatible is a plus.

In Islam and according to the Hadith, a Muslim must pray their 5 Daily Prayers unless they have a physical disability that is stopping them for moving (paralyzed). There are ways to pray if you are sick so I would recommend watching some YouTube videos on it.

To your second questions, a Muslim with long term health is not obligated to go to Hajj if their physical status is preventing them. The Prophet Muhammad SAW said that there are 6 people exempt from Hajj, and one of them is the sick/injured.

I hope that answers your questions Inshallah.

Walaikum Salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh Sister, InSha Allah you are well and may Allah reward you for all your efforts and anyone reading this.

what I would recommend which personally works for me is setting the intention, hear me out. This involves sleep early enough so your body is not too tired to wake up. sleep with Wudu so it’s easier in the morning and also try and not touch any electronics 1hr before sleeping rather spend this hour reading your night Surahs and engaging in Dhirk. If you fail to sleep or find it difficult read more Qur’an and recite Salawat. I hope this helps and May Allah Ta’Ala reward us for all our efforts.

Wa Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.